Anal sex should not hurt. If it hurts you are doing it the wrong way. With enough lubricant and enough patience, it is quite possible to enjoy anal sex as a part of your safe and satisfying sex life. However, some people do not like anything, and if your / your lover is one of these people, respects its limits. Do not force them. The pleasure of anal sex as the result of many factors. Doing something "nasty" appeals to many people, especially with regard to sex.
Do something else to put a little 'pepper in a sex life has become boring can be a reason. And the physical sensations you feel during anal sex are completely different from anything else. The rectum is full of nerve endings, some of which stimulate the brain to reward the person with good feelings when stimulated So first of all x anal intercourse perfect, start with a well-lubricated finger. He has to slide a finger in slowly, letting you fit you. Must pull it all out and rispingerlo in again. Must give time to your anus get used to this type of activity. Then he can slide in a second finger. Then you have to choose a location. Many women want to be on top, to regulate how fast penetration occurs. Others like to lie on my stomach, or curl up in mo 'dog, or be penetrated when they are stretched out on the side. Choose what is best before you start. As always, controlled. Relax and uses a lot of lubricant. People who like anal sex say "too much lube is almost enough."
There will come a time when your anus is relaxed enough to allow the head of his penis to easily enter inside you. If you are completely relaxed, it should be completely painless. Now just because it's inside of you, there is no reason to start bombardarti like crazy. He must let your body adjust. Tell him to take it easy. Hopefully you will both be ready for something more. Even if you're sure that both you, and your partner does not have a condition, you should still use a condom. In the rectum there are many bacteria that can cause burning and urethritis of the penis. If you want to use anal sex as a contraceptive, do not. Anal sex is not a good method of contraception. The loss of semen from the anus after intercourse may drip and cause what is called a concept 'splash'. The last piece of advice is to use a skin cream.
There are lots of brands. (Pfizer, is one, but every pharmaceutical company makes its). Just ask at the pharmacy. Seeing is believing. It is important that they do not contain drugs or sensitizing substances, and are not oily. You can also ask creams for vaginal dryness, but be careful that they do not contain drugs (hormones, etc.). These there are of all brands. Have fun.
